Urolagnia is a term associated with "pee play". The action of watching someone urinate or urinating on someone. Also of seeing someone wet their clothing or wetting ones clothing can be considered in the same category. The word comes from the Greek words ouron meaning urine and lagneia meaning lust. Which is incredibly apt when considering the aspects of this particular fetish.
A person is taught from the age of accountability that you should not watch someone while they relieve themselves, or that it is something that is supposed to be done in private. Quickly, quietly and should only be talked about when absolutely necessary.
However, with urolagnia, it opens up the doors and knocks down the barriers we have unconciously built around ourselves or had set up around us by others and allows us to experience and visualize the relieving of oneself as something interesting at least, and erotic at most.
Different people have different viewpoints on what is acceptable and what is not when it comes to potty play as well. Some would be okay with watching someone be urinated on, or being urinated on. On the same token others would be perfectly fine drinking the urine or someone else or themselves.
It is a considerable taboo, even among lifestylers to enter into potty play. It is generally considered almost as bad as scat play, but not quite. Some never even truly realize the fantasy in real life because they consider it such a terrible thing to let happen. Some find the fantasy of the urination as sufficient for themselves always.
There have been famous people who were not ashamed of their desire to urinate or be urinated on. Like Shirley Manson, the lead singer of Garbage, who complained about men who were afraid of body fluids and wrote songs about Golden Showers. As well as Annie Sprinkle, the porn actress who got her name because of her affinity for bodily fluids.
There is a form of urolagnia that is incredibly appealing to me as a slave. The act of desperation. Being forced to hold my urine. Or having to ask and knowing that the possibility is there to be kept waiting to urinate at someone else's desire. i find that highly erotic.
Also there is the thought of being urinated on. As if the person were marking their territory like an animal, as well as humiliation factor that is imbedded in it because it has been such a taboo thing to consider.
The thought of swallowing someone's urine or being used as a true toilet in that manner has it's appeal as well, but only for certain people. i would certainly not want to be used as a potty slut for everyone i come in contact with in that manner.
The whole act of being urinated upon is something that is seriously appealing to me. i have a desire to experience because of the humiliation factor as well as the desire to truly belong to someone in such a way. So it is an appealing thought all the way around.
The thought of potty play puts me in a strange state of mind. When those in the know so to speak use that particular fetish in play it instantly makes me feel as slavish as i have ever felt. i do not know if it is because of the fact that it is such a no no. A naughty little secret that it fires off all the bad girl receptors in my brain or what.
i think a lot of the feelings that come from potty play stem from the fact that it is such a taboo exchange. Something so much more personal than simple whipping or flogging. Not that those things are not in and of themselves a trigger for the slave inside of me. Pain has always been such. However, the thought of being used as a toilet or made to keep from pottying until the Dominant in question decrees it is alright is something that makes me quiver.
Of course there is the humiliation factor as well. As appealing as it may seem and as fun as the actions might be, there is still the humiliation involved in serving as someone's toilet. And the thought that you might actually wet yourself if you are not allowed to urinate in a good amount of time is incredibly embarrassing and fully humiliating if it were to happen. Just the prospects make me squirm.
Having my urination under someone else's control is something that is in and of itself a level of submission. Giving up all the control of even your most basic functions to Another is something that i was trained to do and something that i haven't had for many years. It is something that is appealing to me because again, it makes me FEEL like a slave more than simply kneeling beside His chair might do.
To reach that level of submission with Someone is something i miss and something that is a yearning inside of me to once again achieve. It is a way to make a slave feel like a slave even if she is not there with the Dominant in real life. It is a way to make online D/s more "real". Just a few thoughts on the subject. *grins wickedly* Hope it didn’t scare anyone. LOL
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It is such a joy to see T/those with the same "likings" but to see the different reasons, desired and fulfillment that it gives to each individual. Thank you for sharing part of yourself, and don't Y/you wish Y/you could have those photos hanging around Y/your room.. someday i will have a private room with all the "good pictures".. be well my friend.. kisses and tongue
ReplyDeleteThank you for this thoughtful and honest post. Urolagnia isn't something that appeals to me, but you have written in such a way that I can understand why it appeals to you. Well done!
ReplyDeleteYou know... I don't think you're as freaky as you think. I think there are far more people with this and other kinks than we know about.
ReplyDeleteI think it's just that they may not be able to act upon them or they may not be as brave as you are to give them a voice and make their desires known.
Okay so maybe you ARE a little freaky but your inner freak is as hot as the sun is bright. Thank you for sharing, sexyface, stuff you make me all dewy n stuff.
I love the "drippy" photo at the top - brings back hilarious memories that still make me laugh. This post is very well written and thought out. Let your freak flag fly, baby. :)
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